Litigate or Collaborate? Either way, as long as you Negotiate.
It is a mistake to think having your day in Court will get you what you want. Your best bet is to negotiate a settlement, because the Court cannot and will not take the time necessary to really understand the details of your family or property. Most likely, a Court’s ruling will be a cookie-cutter solution that you will not be happy with. Custom sophisticated settlements can be aggressive and bold, and Court should be a last resort.