Will I Receive Post-Divorce Maintenance or Alimony?

Will I Receive Post-Divorce Maintenance or Alimony?

One of the most burning questions clients have when they are going through divorce is whether they will receive or pay post-divorce maintenance (“alimony”). I have already shared the importance of understanding your post-divorce budget while you are going through...
Don’t Bury Your Head in the Sand about your Divorce!

Don’t Bury Your Head in the Sand about your Divorce!

I can’t count how many times I’ve been asked whether so-called “COVID divorces” are a real thing. The answer is a resounding, “YES!” As I’ve mentioned before in this space, I think one reason for the felt increase in divorces is that people of all walks of life are...
Mediating your Divorce or Custody Case

Mediating your Divorce or Custody Case

When we start talking to clients about the mediation process, many assume it will look like that infamous first scene from the 2005 comedy, Wedding Crashers – where the husband and wife are sitting across from each other at a large conference room table, each flanked...
Adultery—How Much Does it Really Matter?

Adultery—How Much Does it Really Matter?

Our divorcing clients come to us from both sides of the adultery fence—as the cheating spouse, and as the scorned spouse. What everyone wants to know is:  How much does it really matter? As you might expect a lawyer to say:  That depends! If the cheating spouse spent...
Find Your Bliss… At a Food Truck?

Find Your Bliss… At a Food Truck?

This time last year, I wrote about the lemons 2020 had handed us, and how we could make the best of the rest of 2020. It felt good to look ahead with fresh eyes, feeling revived about a new way to see our Pandemic-y circumstances. Things are feeling a bit precarious...